Thursday, October 13, 2005

What Should I Do with My Life?




















Yesterday, I read SBY’s essay on the topic of Heroes, the title is: The Making of a Hero.

Anyway, after reading that essay, I was wondering about the real heroes, the people that SBY mentioned in his essay, but after a while I forgot about it.

This morning, I suddenly remembered that I have this book that tells people’s stories on how they answer the ultimate question “what should I do with my life?” (Which is also the title of the book), I remembered that in one of the chapter of this book, there’s an amazing story about someone that might be called a hero (at least by some people).

The next thing I did was of course, trying to get that book and re-read the story, because I remember that beside the obvious thing that this guy is a hero, this guy also got some great comments/answers about how he actually chose to follow the hero way; he’s a Yale University graduate, who sacrifices the possibility of having a great job with a great salary like his old schoolmates and instead is willing to work with a very low salary, just because of one reason: “chasing greatness.”

Here’s the story:

So, this hero name is Chang Chi, he works at one of the most successful public charter school in the US, the Academy of Pacific Rim (don’t be fool by the adjective “most successful, because they don’t measure it in term of profit). Before I talk further about this amazing guy, I think I should share more about this creative school which achieves tremendous success:

  • The entrance has no requirements.
  • Its students come from low/middle class (most are African American).
  • When the student came to the school many can’t read or write and1/3 of them will repeat the 1st year - by the 3rd year only 1/10 have to repeat.
  • By the end of high school, they will be top student applying to the Ivy League (top universities).

So, what they’re doing is really getting this kids who have problems with public school, teach them and sending them to really good colleges. – “In education, this is the true measure of success.”

The school was founded about 7-8 years ago by a Harvard Business School grad who was interested in education reform; he took a trip to Japan and adapted some education techniques. There are so many interesting facts about the school; for example: where usual public school value 4.0 GPA more than anything else, this school’ highest honor is not that, “it’s to receive the gambatte (Japanese for: fight till the end) award for exhibiting character: act of generosity, resisting peer-pressure or for avoiding fight.”

Most of the teachers (including our guy: Chi) works from 8 in the morning until 9 at night (yes, 13 hours) everyday, and is often in Saturday (and yes, with a very low salary); Moreover, many of these heroes are actually top universities graduates (you know, school like: Harvard, UC Berkley, Yale, …), if they wanted, they could easily find a much much better jobs.

However, not every one of them has to struggle as much as Chi. Chi as a Chinese son, believe the tradition about respecting elders, especially his dad. His dad who still believe that wealth is the main measure of success and happiness, once sent Chi to Yale, within a hope that Chi would get a respectful job with high salary, not 5$/hr kind of salary. His dad was surely very upset about Chi’s decision to join APR, and of course Chi must have felt very bad about it too.

Still, Chi did not give up. He believed in what he was doing. Below you can see the strength of his very own words that might inspire many:

“Call me romantic, but deep down I want to be great. I want to believe in a cause or an idea bigger than my individual financial or career progress. Deep down, that’s why I can’t get myself to look seriously at law or business school applications. Tell me, is there really anything, anything at all ‘great’ about working for a firm or corporation? And so here I am, chasing greatness.”


Of course, not everyone would agree with him. Of course, not everyone value him as a hero, but at least this mom from a low income family does, because once in a supermarket she “pulled [Chi] aside and in the most heart-felt way imaginable, asked [him]- practically begged [him] not to leave the school until her two middle school daughters graduated from high-school.” In responding to this occasion, Chi later said to the author of the book, “eat your heart out, MasterCard - those five minutes of gratitude were as priceless as it gets. A teacher you say? Nah, call me the luckiest guy on earth.

Yup, this is Chi.


Chi
: “In Chinese families, we are raised to respect our elders”

Author: “Respect or behave?”

Chi: “Respect their wisdom about how to live”

Author: “So, you feel a ton of guilt, huh?”

Chi: “Yeah”

Author: “Do you think about going off to make money?”

Chi: “Never, I love what I do…”



No matter what people think of him ..... for me, he's a hero.

9 Comments:

Blogger Imelda said...

Oh Cool.. This Chi guy... can u hook me up with him (he..he JOKING!) Anyway... he is admirable for his sacrifice for his oppportunities. He can earn big bucks for God sake...

The other is just another big dilemma us, asians are facing..... hmm blame the paternal culture we are always having....

Kudos to your hero, man.
I agree.. he is GOOD....

1:56 PM  
Blogger muhnur said...

a hero is the one who could spread the benefits to others no matter what he/she does.
incredible share.

1:41 AM  
Blogger wawa said...

to Imelda: you already got a bf what? hehe ...
to Muhnur: interesting definition of hero you got there :)

3:23 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

for me my hero is my parent huahahahaha ****kayak anak kecil nih jawaban gw***. timeasia Magazine nya saya bookmark di browser saya :) , thanks informasinya.

7:26 AM  
Blogger sisie said...

hmmm... i tend to bit a bit skeptical about these kinda things, though... we'll see how long this would last...
however, seeing the fact that he actually love doing these things dan merasa mendapatkan 'sesuatu' dengan melakukan hal2 itu, mudah2an bisa bertahan sampai lamaaaa sekali :)
human tends to seek for reciprocity right? Chi mendapatkannya dari kenyamanan batin yang dia miliki dengan melakukan hal2 ini..
dan karena wujud resiprositasnya nggak berupa materi semata, makanya dia dibilang Hero...

anyway, thx for stopping by at my blog ;)

8:23 PM  
Blogger Ririn said...

my hero ?
yang pasti bukan superman :)

thanks udah visited my blog :)

9:38 PM  
Blogger wawa said...

to Sugar-sugar:
Very interesting opinion, I appreciate it. mungkin memang benar beberapa orang melakukan hal-hal tersebut hanya untuk sementara waktu, karena alasan batin.
Namun ada juga orang-orang tertentu yang memang punya tujuan hidup untuk membuat perubahan terhadap dunia, entah dalam bentuk apapun. Contohnya: RA Kartini: dia percaya dia bisa perlu melakukan sesuatu untuk kaum wanita Indonesia, dan dia berhasil.
Confucius: mendedikasikan hidupnya untuk belajar dan mengajar, demi kepentingan orang banyal, dan dia berhasil.
Budha: berusaha mencari penerangan, sesuatu yang lebih berharga dari kehidupan duniawi, dan dia berhasil.
Plato, Maria Curie, Gandhi, Nelson Mandela dan orang orang besar lainnya yang mencurahkan hidupnya untuk apa yang dia percayai, dan kebanyakan untuk hal yang mulia.... banyak sekali kan...

Mungkin Chi tidak seagung mereka, mungkin kelak Chi bakal berpaling dari rutinitas mulianya, kita semua masih belon tahu.
Tapi yang pasti, Chi telah melakukan awal yang hebat, yang mulia, yang telah membawa puluhan dan mungkin ratusan anak dari golongan bawah untuk menaikkan tingkat kehidupan mereka secara signifikan.

Anyway, I really appreciate your opinion, it broaden my perspective about this matter.

Terima kasih :)

10:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

kenapa chi ngga mau kerja aja, supaya dapet banyak (I mean banyak) duit, terus dia support organisasi itu?

dengan support nya yang besar (since he makes "banyak" duit) dia bisa membuat orang2 yang mau mengajar tadi tetap melakukan pekerjaan itu dengan gaji yang layak (more than $5/hr)

dengan begitu yang mengajar tetap great, dan chi is even greater (since he help to support great people)

dengan memutus kan untuk mengajar dan tidak berkarier, saya rasa chi adalah orang yang lumayan egois. dia tidak hidup sesuai dengan kemampuan maximal nya. memang tidak bisa disangkal, kalo dia membuat impact di kehidupan orang lain. tapi apakah impact sekecil itu perlu dilakukan oleh orang2 sebesar itu? a bit redundant, don't you think?

moral of the comment: live up to your expectations, do your best at what you do best. make greater impact



more power to the peple

2:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Right on just some guy...

setuju 100%

2:21 PM  

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